when you really think it wouldnt get any worse, it does

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Jun 26, 2003 | 01:45 PM

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Zate

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great reply aharon.. right on the money.

you'll never ever marry a girl who has only ever slept with you.. not in todays day and age.. and honestly.. you woudlnt want to..

long as its not the miami dolhoins..its all cool.. take aharons advice.. it really does work... girls want a confident guy.. someone who has their ducks in a row..i'd suggest taking your brothers advice too..get stuff sorted with your business.. put it al lbehind you.. get the complications out of the way.. andhonestly ..if she is the kind of girl you should be dating.. she'll be all over you.. tryin to get your little twinky out of your pants in no time

(j/k about the twinky..lol)

Jun 26, 2003 | 01:51 PM

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Bill

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Originally posted by Zate
great reply aharon.. right on the money.

you'll never ever marry a girl who has only ever slept with you.. not in todays day and age.. and honestly.. you woudlnt want to..

long as its not the miami dolhoins..its all cool.. take aharons advice.. it really does work... girls want a confident guy.. someone who has their ducks in a row..i'd suggest taking your brothers advice too..get stuff sorted with your business.. put it al lbehind you.. get the complications out of the way.. andhonestly ..if she is the kind of girl you should be dating.. she'll be all over you.. tryin to get your little twinky out of your pants in no time

(j/k about the twinky..lol)

I find it hard to listen to any man who eats vegimite or keeps a Twinkie in his pants...let alone both.

Jun 26, 2003 | 02:09 PM

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Scott

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Great advice from Aharon.

Guess I have been married to long to remember to type something that good.

Jun 26, 2003 | 05:13 PM

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John

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Jun 26, 2003 | 05:17 PM

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which in a long about way everybody is telling you to forget her, concentrate on you, and everything will get better.

Jun 27, 2003 | 05:32 PM

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marksaccord95

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Originally posted by Aharon
My thought process on this sort of stuff is kinda entertaining. So I must express them

First, and foremost. The last thing you ever want to do is tell a girl not to date/fuck someone.. It makes you seem insecure about yourself, and self confidence is like one of the top 3 things that keeps a girl dating you. Plus, it makes them begin to wonder why you seem so concerned about this other person. Possiblly even make them curious enough to ride thier balony pony.

The correct response to his constant calling would be: become less available to her, talk about more girls, become a better and more difficult catch for her. What girl wants a guy who throws themselves at them?

Who is she going to pick at this point. The guy who is so lame he cant find another girl to call.. Or the busy guy who is always on dates? Which one do you think appears as a "man" in her eyes. The minute you thought she was out with him, and started calling her constantly, you dropped a level on her scales. You were now no better then the enemy.

I hate to say it, but I can garuntee you she fucked him. I dont care how well you know this girl. The only reason why she isnt telling you the truth is becuase she thinks you will freak out and never talk to her again.

Even if she would have fucked him, I would still stay with her. You guys werent dating at the time anyway.. Just talking, being friends, and having sex. That isnt really dating.. lol.. It's not like she is tainted goods now.. She is the same girl as before. Who has touched a girls vagina plays little role when I am picking long term relationships.

I feel your pain though, everyone has crap like this happen. Hopefully gain something from this, and move on Move on quickly and dont dwell on this too long.

word! i dont call her anyway, but maybe 1-2 times a week, its mainly her calling me, but since the day i found this out, i havent called her at all.

i know for a fact they didnt fuck, she would be completely honest to me if i asked, and she was.

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