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no offense dude, going and raising hell witht his guy isnt gonan get you anywher ebut jail
if shes gonan elave you after all you guys went thru? what makes you think she wont leave this guy
if shes gonan elave you after all you guys went thru? what makes you think she wont leave this guy
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girls always lie to try to not hurt the feelings of guys.. even the nicest sweetest girls that absolutely hate liars, will lie to your face if they think that the truth will hurt you too much.
I agree with Jesse, you can hate this guy all you want, but beating him up will land you in jail, and you wont feel any better about them messing around even if he's beaten to a bloody pulp.
so true... was with me ex for a year and she decided that she didnt know what she wanted so we took a "break" and she decided to try doing coke every night and fucked some guy in my bed while I was in st louis, and even though I figured it out and asked her directly about it she lied to my face for 3 weeks until I found out who the guy was and said his name to her, then she finally admitted to it.
I'm sorry to hear this is all happening to you man, I dont even know you but that doesnt change anything...
Try not to dwell on it, but do try to learn from it...
I agree with Jesse, you can hate this guy all you want, but beating him up will land you in jail, and you wont feel any better about them messing around even if he's beaten to a bloody pulp.
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This is why I dont like dating younger girls, they have no idea what they want.
This is why I dont like dating younger girls, they have no idea what they want.
I'm sorry to hear this is all happening to you man, I dont even know you but that doesnt change anything...
Try not to dwell on it, but do try to learn from it...
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Originally posted by 93ex
no offense dude, going and raising hell witht his guy isnt gonan get you anywher ebut jail
if shes gonan elave you after all you guys went thru? what makes you think she wont leave this guy
no offense dude, going and raising hell witht his guy isnt gonan get you anywher ebut jail
if shes gonan elave you after all you guys went thru? what makes you think she wont leave this guy
Amen my brother !
Plus it's not like you were married therefore it was open game since you were not dating, all women lie.
I told you to let it go for the summer while she was in Miami and if it was meant to be it would sort itself out. Calling her 24/7 isn't going to make her like you any more. Especially calling this other dude, that is fucking gay !
As I have always advised you shit happens for a reason. And you know what I say about good / bad karma ! Everyone makes there own. Get this shit with your business cleared up (completely), get going full time in school agian, get on a schedule, and everything will fall into place. TRUST ME FOR ONCE ! What do you have to loose for trying ?
You know all the shit I went through years ago and now look at me, I really couldn't be happier. And trust me things got real bad for a while (more than you will ever know). Then one day I woke up said enough of this shit and have never looked back since. That is what it is going to take for you. Hopefully it will be sooner than later.
Finally you know I am always here for you regardless of whatever shit you have got yourself into.
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thanks for your replies everyone. the thing is, i dont call her really at all, she calls me, usually at night before she goes to bed. like last night when i was out at the green iguana she called and i just gave her the cold shoulder and got off the phone. there is no doubt that she does care for me and think about me a lot, but it needs to be more then what it is now if shes going to want to get back together. i really could see myself with this girl in the future, but im not about to wait around for her. i also REALLY dont want to get involved with another girl that i like almost as much as her and then have her come around and realize that i was the one for her. my Ex (heather) I dated before ashley did that to me when i was dating her, and it was hard to hear that and move on.
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My thought process on this sort of stuff is kinda entertaining. So I must express them 
First, and foremost. The last thing you ever want to do is tell a girl not to date/fuck someone.. It makes you seem insecure about yourself, and self confidence is like one of the top 3 things that keeps a girl dating you. Plus, it makes them begin to wonder why you seem so concerned about this other person. Possiblly even make them curious enough to ride thier balony pony.
The correct response to his constant calling would be: become less available to her, talk about more girls, become a better and more difficult catch for her. What girl wants a guy who throws themselves at them?
Who is she going to pick at this point. The guy who is so lame he cant find another girl to call.. Or the busy guy who is always on dates? Which one do you think appears as a "man" in her eyes. The minute you thought she was out with him, and started calling her constantly, you dropped a level on her scales. You were now no better then the enemy.
I hate to say it, but I can garuntee you she fucked him. I dont care how well you know this girl. The only reason why she isnt telling you the truth is becuase she thinks you will freak out and never talk to her again.
Even if she would have fucked him, I would still stay with her. You guys werent dating at the time anyway.. Just talking, being friends, and having sex. That isnt really dating.. lol.. It's not like she is tainted goods now.. She is the same girl as before. Who has touched a girls vagina plays little role when I am picking long term relationships.
I feel your pain though, everyone has crap like this happen. Hopefully gain something from this, and move on Move on quickly and dont dwell on this too long.
First, and foremost. The last thing you ever want to do is tell a girl not to date/fuck someone.. It makes you seem insecure about yourself, and self confidence is like one of the top 3 things that keeps a girl dating you. Plus, it makes them begin to wonder why you seem so concerned about this other person. Possiblly even make them curious enough to ride thier balony pony.
The correct response to his constant calling would be: become less available to her, talk about more girls, become a better and more difficult catch for her. What girl wants a guy who throws themselves at them?
Who is she going to pick at this point. The guy who is so lame he cant find another girl to call.. Or the busy guy who is always on dates? Which one do you think appears as a "man" in her eyes. The minute you thought she was out with him, and started calling her constantly, you dropped a level on her scales. You were now no better then the enemy.
I hate to say it, but I can garuntee you she fucked him. I dont care how well you know this girl. The only reason why she isnt telling you the truth is becuase she thinks you will freak out and never talk to her again.
Even if she would have fucked him, I would still stay with her. You guys werent dating at the time anyway.. Just talking, being friends, and having sex. That isnt really dating.. lol.. It's not like she is tainted goods now.. She is the same girl as before. Who has touched a girls vagina plays little role when I am picking long term relationships.
I feel your pain though, everyone has crap like this happen. Hopefully gain something from this, and move on
Move on quickly and dont dwell on this too long.
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Originally posted by Aharon
My thought process on this sort of stuff is kinda entertaining. So I must express them
First, and foremost. The last thing you ever want to do is tell a girl not to date/fuck someone.. It makes you seem insecure about yourself, and self confidence is like one of the top 3 things that keeps a girl dating you. Plus, it makes them begin to wonder why you seem so concerned about this other person. Possiblly even make them curious enough to ride thier balony pony.
The correct response to his constant calling would be: become less available to her, talk about more girls, become a better and more difficult catch for her. What girl wants a guy who throws themselves at them?
Who is she going to pick at this point. The guy who is so lame he cant find another girl to call.. Or the busy guy who is always on dates? Which one do you think appears as a "man" in her eyes. The minute you thought she was out with him, and started calling her constantly, you dropped a level on her scales. You were now no better then the enemy.
I hate to say it, but I can garuntee you she fucked him. I dont care how well you know this girl. The only reason why she isnt telling you the truth is becuase she thinks you will freak out and never talk to her again.
Even if she would have fucked him, I would still stay with her. You guys werent dating at the time anyway.. Just talking, being friends, and having sex. That isnt really dating.. lol..
I feel your pain though, everyone has crap like this happen. Hopefully gain something from this, and move on Move on quickly and dont dwell on this too long.
My thought process on this sort of stuff is kinda entertaining. So I must express them
First, and foremost. The last thing you ever want to do is tell a girl not to date/fuck someone.. It makes you seem insecure about yourself, and self confidence is like one of the top 3 things that keeps a girl dating you. Plus, it makes them begin to wonder why you seem so concerned about this other person. Possiblly even make them curious enough to ride thier balony pony.
The correct response to his constant calling would be: become less available to her, talk about more girls, become a better and more difficult catch for her. What girl wants a guy who throws themselves at them?
Who is she going to pick at this point. The guy who is so lame he cant find another girl to call.. Or the busy guy who is always on dates? Which one do you think appears as a "man" in her eyes. The minute you thought she was out with him, and started calling her constantly, you dropped a level on her scales. You were now no better then the enemy.
I hate to say it, but I can garuntee you she fucked him. I dont care how well you know this girl. The only reason why she isnt telling you the truth is becuase she thinks you will freak out and never talk to her again.
Even if she would have fucked him, I would still stay with her. You guys werent dating at the time anyway.. Just talking, being friends, and having sex. That isnt really dating.. lol..
I feel your pain though, everyone has crap like this happen. Hopefully gain something from this, and move on
Move on quickly and dont dwell on this too long.
Listen to the man, he made a hell of a lot of sense. Of course he didn't mention the most important thing. You've gotta run out and even the tables. You've got a free fuck card and you'd better damn well use it while you can. If you don't you'll
a) leave the playing field unleveled
b) regret it
c) miss the chance to inflict some of what you're feeling back at 'er
