i've cheated before, but that was in highschool in a relationship that wasnt too serious anyway. i told her about it the next day and she still kept me. i would never cheat on my wife because i would never want her to do it to me.

matt, the best thing i've found for relieving stress in your situation or a breakup is the gym. take out that stress on wieghts and surround your self with friends.

 

In this case I could have cared less about the relationship. It was on a downward spiral anyways, so this helped flush it further down the shitter. Plus she had cheated on me previously, so it all "evened out" at the end.

 

Fuck her mom or beat the asshole she fucked. That will help with the pain.

Other than that, it just takes time

 

Or better yet, buy a watermelon, put a wig on it, and draw a happy face. Then tell her you're seeing someone else. I think it would kill her ego to know that you left her for a piece of fruit...

 

 

ok ive only had 2 serious real gf's ......both of them had dudes on "retainer" and were being flirted with and flirting back with other dude friends....i never "caught" them cheating but there was solid evidence of them being unfaithful and stuffs....i am usually very passive and i dont let things get to me unless theyre very serious and these 2 got to me really bad....i havent had a gf in over a year now for fear of them hurting me like the past one did.....its hard i know, but i am over it....it takes TIME .....it will heal, you will grow past this situation....either by yourself or with another loved one.

i had the opportunity to cheat on my last gf, w/ a hotter, older chick friend, she was putting the moves on me like nobodies business, but i just turned my head and told her i couldnt....because i wouldve wanted my gf to do the same in such a situation.....call me a fag but i didnt do it and i told her nicely that i couldnt hook up with her because it wasnt right....we remained friends and still are to this day, there might not be any chance of me hooking back up but ohh well......it was out of respect....and thats what i am about

just keep your head up, youre too good for that matt.....you will find another, its just a matter of time.....just be strong to yourself and i know you'll pull through and if u need to talk u can lay it on me

take it easy bro

 

That sucks Matt. And I know the feeling very well...and yes...it sucks.
I cheated constantly on women from 17-25. I had no morals or no concern for womens feelings. Some of the women I cheated on were absolutely perfect too. I regret every bit of it.
Then I found one that I fell for...and she basically had me eating out of the palm of her hand....all the while she had NO intention of ever sticking with me. And one day she just up and left for another guy. Never said bye never even gave a reason.

That really took the wind out of my sails for a while. I could not believe how calculating some women could be. Atleast when I was a cheater I never put on the front I wanted a serious relationshhip. I never committed to anything with them.

But I got it all back on that one and then some. Took me a long time to recover from that. And I still have a hard time thinking that a relationship can stay committed over a lifetime. So naturally I am gun shy about getting seriously involved.

I also enjoy being "unattached" at times...so I may be single forever....and thats fine by me.

 

Women ain't nothin' but bitches and hoes. It takes time man. You'll be fine. And on a side not, I am very surprised she would do that. I've lost a lot, if all respect for her. Cheating is the lowest thing you can do IMO. It just takes some time Matt. Keep busy to try to take your mind off of things.

 

I am.

if you're wondering why I did what i did on the wednesday night meet.

i was really , really, really frustrated that Regina didn't come to the meet, like she said she was going to. (she ended up going to Jim's [marty mcfly] place instead. You can add two and two together.

when i get frustrated, I let peer pressure get to me.

But that's neither here nor there, i've already dealt with the consequences of doing so, and I won't be at the north tampa meets from now on because of it.

I just wanted to say is, maybe I am too forgiving, but I forgave her.

who knows.