ekdriverN/A = typical dipshit honda kid.
looks like the typical dipshit honda kid bought something without having any idea what it was, and is all pissed off that it wasn't "right"
sounds like a full refund was offered, but refused because the buyer wanted a partial refund. Maybe that's the way it works in the honda world, but in the real world, it doesn't work that way. You buy it for the price and keep it, or you give it back and get a full refund.
Sounds like the seller did what he should have done in the beginning and the buyer thought this was burger king trying to get it exactly his way.
apparently a partial refund isn't an option. I would bet that the seller doesn't have the money anymore. Most people sell stuff because they need to spend that money elsewhere. And it sounds like it is going to be a major pain in the ass to get the seller to be able to do anything at this point, given the time, and car situation and all of that. So, ekdriverN/A, stop being a dipshit honda kid and just sell the parts, get your money back that way, and shop for new stuff.
Didn't someone offer you more than you paid for them anyway?