Thanks to all who have posted serious help thoughts. And as for all those who have nothing better to do then correct my grammer. get a job move out of mom and daddys house and go screw yourselves. I mean really if you don't have any useful advise then why did you even respond??? I was warned by a co worker who told me about this site that there are a lot of 20 somthing year olds with nothing better to do, who are just a bunch of assholes. Well you proved him correct.