ford tranny's suck. they put three of them in my bullitt. the third is a tremec spec not a ford spec and i havent had any problems with it yet.
i have talked with tremec and they recommend you use syncromesh tranny fluid and stay away with synthetic(sp) with their trannys. so thats what i made ford put in mine the last time. i had to have a letter from tremec telling them to put it in there.
good luck and i am sorry to here you are having these problems i know how ford is when you have to get something replaced more then once. right now im fighting with them over my head lights.
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2004 Black Cobra
Mods= Amazon Racing Cold-Air, Mac Catted Prochamber, Mac 3" Catback