Originally Posted by
Ford DNA
First of all, THANK YOU to all you fathers who are responsible for your children. Second, Pat, it sounds like a bad situation no matter what happens. If you voluntarily cut back on the money, might your son think he's suddenly worth less to you? Going to court sounds even worse. It's tough because your son is old enough to know what's going on and young enough to take all of it personally. Bad deal all around.
It's not about cutting back. It's about being able to tell my ex "Fuck Off" without any ramifications (in my ass). I give way more to all my children...clothing..cars...gifts...and any other things thye may need. I still give plenty. My 18 year old that just moved here got a new leather living room set, tables, LCD TV etc from me. I have no problem helping them above and beyond. I just hate my ex. I want to tell her pound smoke up her ass....without having to worry about getting hauled back into court.
