My thought process on this sort of stuff is kinda entertaining. So I must express them

First, and foremost. The last thing you ever want to do is tell a girl not to date/fuck someone.. It makes you seem insecure about yourself, and self confidence is like one of the top 3 things that keeps a girl dating you. Plus, it makes them begin to wonder why you seem so concerned about this other person. Possiblly even make them curious enough to ride thier balony pony.

The correct response to his constant calling would be: become less available to her, talk about more girls, become a better and more difficult catch for her. What girl wants a guy who throws themselves at them?

Who is she going to pick at this point. The guy who is so lame he cant find another girl to call.. Or the busy guy who is always on dates? Which one do you think appears as a "man" in her eyes. The minute you thought she was out with him, and started calling her constantly, you dropped a level on her scales. You were now no better then the enemy.

I hate to say it, but I can garuntee you she fucked him. I dont care how well you know this girl. The only reason why she isnt telling you the truth is becuase she thinks you will freak out and never talk to her again.

Even if she would have fucked him, I would still stay with her. You guys werent dating at the time anyway.. Just talking, being friends, and having sex. That isnt really dating.. lol.. It's not like she is tainted goods now.. She is the same girl as before. Who has touched a girls vagina plays little role when I am picking long term relationships.




I feel your pain though, everyone has crap like this happen. Hopefully gain something from this, and move on Move on quickly and dont dwell on this too long.