thanks for your replies everyone. the thing is, i dont call her really at all, she calls me, usually at night before she goes to bed. like last night when i was out at the green iguana she called and i just gave her the cold shoulder and got off the phone. there is no doubt that she does care for me and think about me a lot, but it needs to be more then what it is now if shes going to want to get back together. i really could see myself with this girl in the future, but im not about to wait around for her. i also REALLY dont want to get involved with another girl that i like almost as much as her and then have her come around and realize that i was the one for her. my Ex (heather) I dated before ashley did that to me when i was dating her, and it was hard to hear that and move on.