well thanks everyonw for the help, i took out the motor today and the rear motor mount was worn so i replaced with a new one, the car doesnt shake as much, but still does. Someone told me that its probably my pressure plate and i would need to get it adjusted, but idk i will see what happens. - Da1andonlyjinx did your friend use transmission honda genuine oil or just regular motor oil to put it in his tranny let me know thanks.