Man its easy. Go to Advance auto parts ask for a Contunity Tester
http://www.partsamerica.com/ProductD...rtnumber=85598
That will work, push the needle part onto the wire and put the other end on a ground. If it lights up "WITH" the key on but doesn't "WITHOUT" the key on then splice those wires together.
If you feel that you still cant do this yourself shoot me up with a pm and we can talk.
-Joe