Why a beginner shouldn't shoot a wedding thread
Aside from the few that actually made an attempt to help my newb ass choose some budget equipment, this clearly is the best advice I've read yet.
Figs: You're lost... Sign up to photograph a wedding with that mentality. And when you sink, guess who will look dumb? Not the members on an automotive forum that didn't give you tips/ pointers/ advice about wedding photography. You said "A lot of photographers won't let you shadow, so one can only learn by doing." Its kind of like looking for a job! If an employer tells you "Not at this time" are you going to crawl into a hole and live your life in the dark? Surprisingly, it actually works out to your advantage! You will learn 100X more if you are patient and continue asking! You will network and meet MANY photographers! The type you will want to work with in the future, the type you will stay away from, and when you become Florida's top wedding photographer you will tell your potential clients who to stay away from! Lisa "ALMOST"
had the opportunity to shoot a wedding with me but I was able to make the wedding on-time... Typically, photographers are "worried" that you might take over clients! I think of it this way; If Im doing my job to the best of my ability and someone takes a client away from me, they deserve it and vise-versa!
Last edited by Figs; Jul 9, 2010 at 04:02 AM.
Yawn...
CEMAYHALL, do you not update your site ? because from the looks of it , you've just done 1 wedding.
CEMAYHALL, do you not update your site ? because from the looks of it , you've just done 1 wedding.
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Last edited by TampasOriginalSoarer; Jul 9, 2010 at 05:05 AM.
Look at it this way, you want them to re-use you in the future so do a good job. And by re-use, I mean they are going to get divorced in 2yrs and both will remarry. It's 2010 for crying out loud. You just booked two future weddings.
Simple math really. No need to thank me.
Simple math really. No need to thank me.
Well if getting more advice than I bargained for consists of someone not giving advice exactly like you did (or not in your case) and who obviously did not read or misread my original post and only posted that it was a bad idea is more than I bargained for then, well yeah, you're right.
This is an open forum. You're not guaranteed to get exactly what you ask for. If you want everyone to tell you what you want to hear, you're in the wrong place.
Critique my skill, artistic ability, knowledge and experience or lack of, I'm sure I could use it, and welcome it but how far down do I need to break this for you to get it? We're not talking about a girls first marriage who actually wants a true photographer.
Is this thing on?

Is this thing on?

No hard feelings here.
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It looks like you already knew your answer when you made this thread so why get mad when people give you advise
It is what it is. I tried, and I know Adrenalin and I tried our hardest.
Anyways, just to put case in point, my first wedding "I shot" (I say that because I was just a guest and wanted to play around, yes, I was that "Uncle Bob" haha) I had my old D50, Sb-24 that didn't quite work on the hot shoe, and a 50 1.8:
Actually these that I uploaded had no flash...It's all the rows except the last row.
Weddings & Engagements - a set on Flickr
So it's of course do-able with a very minimal investment.
Anyways, just to put case in point, my first wedding "I shot" (I say that because I was just a guest and wanted to play around, yes, I was that "Uncle Bob" haha) I had my old D50, Sb-24 that didn't quite work on the hot shoe, and a 50 1.8:
Actually these that I uploaded had no flash...It's all the rows except the last row.
Weddings & Engagements - a set on Flickr
So it's of course do-able with a very minimal investment.
So don't ask a specific question here in the photography forum, just look it up on youtube.....right?
I believe on youtube, there is videos on how-to-shoot a wedding 101 type of deal. I'm not trying to be a jerk to you, I'm simply trying to help you out.
I honestly think the answer I gave you is the best you'll get since I highly doubt your friend will dish out any more then 500$ and if she would, she might as well paid some cheap photographer to shoot it.
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Canon 5D | 50mm 1.4 | 24-70 2.8 | 16-35 2.8 | 85mm 1.4 | 24-105 f4 | 70-200 2.8
I think what I said you took in the wrong way. I'm saying if I was in the OP shoes and if someone I personally know is giving me the opportunity to shoot their wedding even if they knew my lack of knowledge/equipment then I would do so. Not some random individual I don't know. Personally, you can only learn by doing. Reading on the Internet on how to photograph a wedding won't necessarily make you any better. Yes, its true most photographers won't let you shadow because they are scared you will steal their clients but if its a novice what is such the big deal? I don't think one wedding would make someone better then someone who has shot so many and has had years of experience. Last thing I'm thinking of is stealing anyone's clients to be honest. I am the type that likes to learn and I do so mostly by doing. That is why I said, if I'm given an opportunity to expand my photography I would take it. Lastly my question to you is, how would someone get into the wedding photography business without even shooting weddings? Knowledge and experience is gain somehow so how is it gained? I read your post and understand preparation but there's things on your numbered list that one can only learn by just doing. I have no experience in shooting weddings so this is why I am asking questions.
Sorry again about the confusion! Good luck and don't give up...
And to answer your question, I stole that wedding set off-line and used it for my personal collection. Actually, I run my ship a little differently than most other photographers. As one would think, weddings are meant to be very special and a "private" moment in most couples life's (this is why people send out invitations to only the people they want there.) I give my clients complete privacy unless written in my contract other-wise... Some people like the fame of having their wedding splashed on the internet and others (most of my clients) like the idea that not everyone can peek into a window to view their personal moments that were only meant to be shared with family and friends. Sure it's easy to say "I took the picture's and I'll do whatever I want to do with them" but thats not how I choose run things.
The wedding that is spot-lighted on my site has probably been there for over a year and I continuously get positive feed-back (bookings from what they see) so I figure why change what's already working?
P.S. I'm not mad that you Yawned at me!
Im actually going to call you bc I want to get some things printed by you...
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