Life gets interesting (i.e. I am emo)
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Life gets interesting (i.e. I am emo)
With all these posts, you'd think I was a whiney emo beyotch. 
So this weekend life just got "interesting". Take it back 2-weeks to the signing of our lease on a new apt in Hyde Park. One week later, Jenny explains my moody/stressed out behaviour is making her unhappy. She suggest perhaps we go back to "dating" status (whatever the fuck that means) and that maybe I should see someone else eventually so maybe I can see just what I was taking for granted in our relationship.
So this would have been nice to know before signing the lease on our new apartment. She gets back from Connecticut for her Xmas family thing this past Sunday, and unfortunately I agree with her that perhaps we should take a break and date other people if we feel the need to do so.
We move in with each other in approx 20-days where we will both have seperate bedrooms and act more like roommates...which is fine by me since even if we were still "going out" I'd prefer to sleep in my own bed since I like to take up ALOT of space. So while we are living together, I'm sure she or I will start dating other people...or maybe not.
Has this feat ever been attempted before? Am I in for a year of hell?
Everyone told me it would be a challenge living with each other for the first time. I didn't think the shit would start almost a month before actually moving in.
And to be perfectly honest, this predicament is probably 75% my fault. I'm just not really "relationship material" lately. So feel free to bash me and my stupid decisions all you want.
So this weekend life just got "interesting". Take it back 2-weeks to the signing of our lease on a new apt in Hyde Park. One week later, Jenny explains my moody/stressed out behaviour is making her unhappy. She suggest perhaps we go back to "dating" status (whatever the fuck that means) and that maybe I should see someone else eventually so maybe I can see just what I was taking for granted in our relationship.
So this would have been nice to know before signing the lease on our new apartment. She gets back from Connecticut for her Xmas family thing this past Sunday, and unfortunately I agree with her that perhaps we should take a break and date other people if we feel the need to do so.
We move in with each other in approx 20-days where we will both have seperate bedrooms and act more like roommates...which is fine by me since even if we were still "going out" I'd prefer to sleep in my own bed since I like to take up ALOT of space. So while we are living together, I'm sure she or I will start dating other people...or maybe not.
Has this feat ever been attempted before? Am I in for a year of hell?
Everyone told me it would be a challenge living with each other for the first time. I didn't think the shit would start almost a month before actually moving in.
And to be perfectly honest, this predicament is probably 75% my fault. I'm just not really "relationship material" lately. So feel free to bash me and my stupid decisions all you want.
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I agree with Greg. Plus in every post you make about her, she's always saying "blah blah upsets ME" "this pisses ME off", etc. Sounds like she's playing hardcore mind games with the dating other people thing, and it trying to make you her puppet, and getting you to do exactly what makes HER happy, not the both of you happy. I'm not gonna bash you or say "I told you so", but with you guys being so on and off and fighting and bickering almost constantly, moving in may not have been the wisest choice. But I hope everything works out for you.
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Sorry I dont ever yt and be asshole, if that came out that way, im sorry 
But I know from my personal expierence that its over with. yes it would be nice if it could work out, but you can pretty much say its not going too.
And believe me its better to be straight to the point then beat around the bush about things like this. I really hate my for dragging things out. Even though it was partially my fault cause I kept trying to keep us together. I know now it would have been better for the both of us just to end it at the first sign.
But I know from my personal expierence that its over with. yes it would be nice if it could work out, but you can pretty much say its not going too.
And believe me its better to be straight to the point then beat around the bush about things like this. I really hate my for dragging things out. Even though it was partially my fault cause I kept trying to keep us together. I know now it would have been better for the both of us just to end it at the first sign.
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She's already bangin someone else... you might as well send her packing.
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Jesus man!!! On the break AND living together in the same apartment??!?!?!? Why not just rip your own heart out now and stomp on it before she gets the chance? God only knows what it's going to feel like the first time you see/hear another guy in her room. This. Was. Not. A. Good. Move.
You'd be better off just breaking the lease...
You'd be better off just breaking the lease...
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^ Thats the main reason why its over with. And I wonder if she herself has thought about that fact from her side of the apt. Seeing you with another girl. If she hasnt im sure its going to do the same to her as it will to you. Even if she has thought about and thinks she can deal with it, she is probably in for a rude awakening.
