Originally posted by Vapor
oh man... Matt please pass my condolences to Tony on this ... I know how it has dragged him down but the finality NEVER feels the way you think it will...
Hopefully, he will be able to do as I did with my granparents (which were basically my parents) and realize that the pain they were in for all of that time is now finally gone.
You never *really* get over a loss such as that, but you can move on.
Things like this can make people better overall if they let it. He sounds like the type to do that...