I can see the independent shops turning you away, but the Dodge dealerships are just being lazy (or maybe they are truly incompetent) by saying they can’t do it.
It will require getting creative to align the car, but it can be done if you didn’t drop more than 2” from what I understand.
They will need to use the specs for an SRT, not the SXT, and it may require shifting the engine cradle to one side or the other, but it can be done if you find the right shop.