I agree with Greg. Plus in every post you make about her, she's always saying "blah blah upsets ME" "this pisses ME off", etc. Sounds like she's playing hardcore mind games with the dating other people thing, and it trying to make you her puppet, and getting you to do exactly what makes HER happy, not the both of you happy. I'm not gonna bash you or say "I told you so", but with you guys being so on and off and fighting and bickering almost constantly, moving in may not have been the wisest choice. But I hope everything works out for you.