Come on now... don't get too down on folks. Wives, kids, jobs, school are all real things that create real issues, not simply excuses. If you're not married, don't have kids, don't have a job with weekend hours, or school that keeps you half a state (or more) away, then consider yourself privileged to be self-determinig and without external commitments. But the rest of us all make sacrifices or pay a price for what is important to us, which is exactly what I'll have to do to make this happen. For me, it's worth the heartache and aggravation, or at least I hope it will be.