Live for speed is the best, physics wise, period. But you need to get a logitech g25 or logitech g27 with proper settings and it feels real as can be 900 degrees, gated shifter, and a clutch. I use it for practice when I can't be in my real car, and am pretty confident my driving skill is above most.

Here is a vid of me and my setup to give you an idea, not sure if you already have the g25 or not.
YouTube - Heffe LFS G25 Tweak Drift (1)