1998 Civic EX original y8

So I gave my friend my header for his stock manifold since I'm getting rid of the car, but I ran into a problem. The exhaust wasn't on the middle hanger and when I disconnected it, it falleded... It ripped out the wires to the plug on the o2 and now I need to repin the plug. All my google searches are different and I put it in the same way as my upstream o2 but I still have a code. Yes I reset the ecu. Anyone got one laying around out of a obd2 car, the downstream one. I don't want to keep pulling it out and reassembling the car everytime.

I need a pic of the PLUG.