UPDATES!!!
just undid stock exhaust, running open downpipe

did what marshall said, got the red led on ecu to spit a 55'er
so does this mean my maf, and sensors are in working order? maybe it is shitty gas...
its weird...it seems to be able to hold idle when its cold, but when it warms up it dies and wont start back up. it will crank, turn over for a quarter of a second and die....