Sorry to hear this , I was much like Al and cheated any time I got a chance, but I told all the girls i was an awful boyfriend not to be taken seriously! Any way one girl wrecked me i was engaged and she layed down the boom while i was stationed in NC . Well i almost let her wreck my world , I drank alot got in to tons of fights and women LOL! The thing is there are plenty of other great women out there , so take your time and enjoy life!