OK so i have these 2 peice headers that KEEP ON BLOWING out the Gaskets (u know them cheap wafer ones they have)

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Q: I had my friend (that works at a a machine shop)make me a full gasket set out of Aluminum and its the same Thickness as the Shitty gaskets sent w/a catback system ,but solid so wont blow out (BAD IS THEY DONT FLEX) Nice job fit well havent tested u think its a good idea?
or i have to use something that sandwiches?


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Q: Can i just NOT run Gaskets on the On the 2 peice header but ONLY use the OEM copper gasket on the Header/Ex port if i have no leaks or will it mess or affect something wrong? im only wantin to eliminate the bottom 2 pre cat gaskets... NOT the ex port Gasket!!

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Q: Should i just weld the Damn Thing and Call it a day and when i need to work on that area to take the headers out imma be kickin myself in the ass??


Much help appreciated
THANKS TR