its your headlight switch. It's broken and stuck in the on position. you will need to replace it, seen this exact same problem on 2 different cars.
didn't read the whole post. You might have some other kind of problem if someone put pos to neg and neg to pos. Goood luck. and don't let random idiots touch your car!
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