Heres a shot similar to what I have in mind. Except my headers will make it a little more difficult upstream. I would like to make the transistion to the passanger side a little more gradual (like two 45's instead of two 90's).
This is exactly the same as my cross member in this picture.
but as mentioned. I'd like mine to be mandrel bent stainless and I want it to look professional. These look like backyard jobs...but the same general idea.