Whoa whoa whoa, you have the female side their in that picture, so you are looking for the male connector?

Dunno if you can get them from Toyota, but you could try. At least you will know the part number now

Male Non-Waterproof:
http://www.ih8mud.com/tech/pdf/WireH...l/malenonw.pdf

Female:
http://www.ih8mud.com/tech/pdf/WireH...l/femaleno.pdf

http://www.ih8mud.com/tech/WireHarnessRepairParts.php