Oh and I have never seen the side markers that high on any EG9 fender unless they were added to oem EG8 fenders. Look at every single one. I have had 4 sets of EG9 fenders and all of them had the side markers much lower. Take pics of that other stuff you supposedly have, it would help sell the car!
This thread may help you find all those missing parts.
http://www.honda-tech.com/showthread.php?t=2243554