i never said what he did was right. i would not want to be the parent of anyone that had a child in John Grazianos place, there is no rational way to rationalize that position. (I have a daughter) From a non connected and non participant point of view . . . If I get in to a car that I know is going to do what it is going to do I have to assume some of the responsibility. I used to video record street races in REALLY fast cars, when i say fast i mean 9 sec cars. i do not do that anymore because of the risk. so now that i have written a book.. this is my opinion, you have yours, as anyone can search and find many of your self indulging opinions. hey man, have a good day.