Hmm...well..first of all...I dont think its fair to generalize all bikers as wanna-be hard asses simply from your experience with bikers. Its kind of illogical. True, many bikers act dumb on bikes and ride pretty agressively...but not ALL.

Secondly...

Could you please let me know how not to look like a hard ass when riding? I dont know if Im doing something wrong...but maybe I should wear a pink sweater and a thong? Would this make me less "hard ass"?

Seriously though...can someone please specifically point out "hard ass" characteristics of bike riders...so maybe I can not make these mistakes?

And while we're on the subject...how bout them hard asses in there pimped out cars...all laid back with the seat so far back they look like they are sittin in the back seat....bumpin their music all loud and shit. Who do they think they are? Whats with them anyway?