sweety palms?? What? are you going on a first date????? WTF????
the only way to link the center without ebrake or foot brake is speeed!! it takes those things between your legs to tell your foot how to do it!!! I don't care about your car, or your dif or lack of a dif, you can link it back to back with an open dif, KA, and no steering angle... I've seen it done!!!
the wet helps you with steering control, if you're spinning out you need faster hands and less foot, so I've heard!!