not trying to convince myself or you guy's for that matter. i guess i was just trying to find a little support or some words from the elders lol. i got my ground rules set with myself and i filled her in on how i feel about some things. i told her that now would be the worst time to try and start over and that it might not ever happen again. if it does latter on down the road then cool but i just dont really see thoughs burnt down bridges getting fixed and right now that seems to be the best thing.

and thanks for the well rounded comment. it might sound a bit dumb but i've come to realize alot in just that last few months. i guess sometimes when you dont see things for what they are god just has ta slap ya around a little bit ta wake your ass up lol.

o and i do need a radiator really bad now i just sprung another leak and i already have one JB weld job on it already.