You sound well adjusted to me. Best to get those growing pains out early.

Fear no man, trust no bitch!

"im sure im doing the right thing, cuz family is family right?"

Be careful here...... Sounds like you are trying to convince yourself and not us.
I know none of this is any of my business and a man has to make his own decisions. But.......Tigers don't change their stripes.

I always get disgrunteled when the end of the month child support is near.