ok i used the main relay yell/green and ran my own wiring from the relay straight to the pump. turn the key it primes turn the key to on position and car starts so i think that the wiring is fucked up from the relay to the fuel pump i looked at the wiring schmatics in the haynes manual and it shows the relay, and a direct run to the fuel pump using the yel/green wire i am chasing the wire back from the fuel pump to were ever it goes under the dash so i will let you know. feel free to comment on this issues thanks pat
and again thanks to all members who respond i will update this as soon as i can