if i do something stupid then how can i protect her.....? i have shared custody, florida is a mother state, she abandoned my daughter and i was raising her for over a year with the help of my family but she took all our savings and left me and my daughter broke. she came back and i agreed to shared custudy because she said she was dying and had cancer and brain tumors. now she's dating some loser that apparently knows how to molest people, because unless theres physical proof the police wont do anything or dcf. it would be just blah blah blah to them and they dont care. he has to screw my kid and scar her up visously before they can consider bringing criminal charges.