Me personally I wouldn't call it a meet, I personally think you shouldnt have this at your house. You should have it at another park or something honestly so it can be a true meet. Then afterwards you can pick and chose who you want to bring home with you for an after party.

Judging from the way things are being said it would seem that would be the best logical way to do this. We are a big dsm community, and there are several of us that are hard core members to the cause. Its almost offending to some to call this a dsm meet with the kind of biasness imposed.

best thing to do is have a get together with your friends, and have a "meet" at a remote location to where you feel safe with your surroundings.

just my .02