I do understand what your saying about time is money, But the place I called was the actual customer service 800 number for DEI, Not just any old shop.

I originally went to this (AVS) Audio/Video Place in Spring Hill to see if they could order me a remote, Their answer was yes (even though they don't work on Clifford Alarms anymore) But it would have cost me $135 for the remote and said to take about 3-5 days to come in.

I went online and did a google search for DEI Wholesale shops and came up with a slew of numbers.

I called one shop and ordered the same remote for $74 shipped to my door next day.
It came in a Clifford/Matrix Blister pack factory sealed.

The stuff I am working with here are a DEI / Matrix RS3.5 Clifford Alarm & the Responder is a DEI / Clifford PN 479X

It's not that I'm trying to get something for free here, I'm just very limited with free time and apparently don't have any local shops that deal with this stuff.

I bought this car with the Alarm already installed, So you see I don't know who to go to for installation support.
The previous owner of the car left me with no information for this thing, So I'm basically starting from square 1.

So How do I put this alarm into Valet Mode?