Wow, sorry to hear it. I found out the other day my moms first kid (or what would of been) was a miscarriage, and if she was born, I wouldn't be here, along with my other brothers and sisters..my science teacher told me theres about a 1 in 150 million chance that you were the one that was born, so my life as I know it, wouldnt of happened if she was born. With that put aside, maybe its a sign, that although it didn't work out this time, your next one will be healthy. And one day when their older and you tell them the story, they'll be understanding and appreciate as to what they have in life, and how lucky they are to just be here. Im gettin all choked up now lol, well i'm sorry to hear it, and wish the best for the both of you.