like someone said earlier, fixx tuning in st. pete does it 727-388-6960. and while your at it check out vwfixx.com (its another vw forum).
as far as body styling goes...i would look for 4motion lips (front & rear), OEM+ stuff...and def. look into dropping it a bit. if you don't have the money for coilovers then you can look into a cupkit...cupkits are a tad better than a spring & shock combo because they are designed to work together, instead of throwing something together but it all depends on how much money you want to spend.