if a newbie asks a stupid question, how long does it take to answer it? I bet it takes longer to type up some witty response.

If you don't want to give the answer to the question, then don't reply, saves time and a bunch of useless emotions.

And to the newbies, if someone replies and yells at you for asking a stupid question, ignore them. They can't reply if you ignore them.

Everyone was new at one time, and everyone got tired of searching through websites (because it is easier and quicker to ask someone).

Plus, we're in a TR forum, come on people. It's not like we're at TBDSM. Not a lot of people in TR know about DSMs.

In conclusion, if you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all. Leave the yelling, bitching, and complaining to the people that do it best... women

We don't need all this TRauma at TR, come on.