Originally Posted by elements

your going to have that fear its naturel, kinda like a relationship, a serious relationship..... you are afarid of getting hurt, so at first you push it away, then you slowly turn to it, and start to "met" people, then you start to "date" people, then so on. its the fear of becoming hurt again is whats holding one back, no one will call you a puss for taking your time. baby steps at first, if you have too, take it just around the block at first and build your way back up.