To answer your other question in the locked thread, since there was alcohol involved there is the possibility that he can be charged. If anything I'm sure the state attorney will find some way to charge him in their deaths. A wrongful death lawsuit has to come from the families I think. Not sure on that one.
I understand about caring for the members here. There are many that I have met and Matt talks very highly of them. There are problems everywhere and CCC is just pinpointed every month, if not every weekend. Instead of everyone bashing (not saying everyone is) the ones that are out there "goofing off" do something about it. And this goes for everyone, not just you (Charles). Like you said, its easy for everyone to sit behind the computer and type words. Well if everyone is so concerned, DO SOMETHING! Don't just sit back and have to go to a funeral every month. I have buried many friends in my years, mostly car accidents, and I hate doing it.
And debates keep me on my toes too LOL Matt hates it, he sees it as drama but if done/said right its all good