well ya know how the assholes are in this world they just see that another person has to pay for there shit so they go to the most expensive place and get every thing redone ya know she got like a whole new paint job and shit i think ya should see where shes going and what shes getting find out what needs to be done to her car and then find a place or 2 on your own that are cheapers and would be for what only she needs not what she wants at least then ya would have something to stand on a little and try and save some money to get ya car going