Well...I got good news! I dropped the rear pressure by about 3psi and the thing woke up! I took her for a run down patterson(or 4

) last night and mmmm...thats all i got to say! thanks for all the tips so far!
I got a Neuspeed Lower Tie bar to install still, I dont think that will make as much a difference as the strut bars did but well see! I guess a sway bar could be next on the list for suspension mods

but I gotta get a roll bar, seat, harness, and steering wheel before I get any more mods....