danaintampa came today and made a logical point,...the guy who had the car in the shop, changed the intake mani ghasket,..well we noticed it was a cheap ass one,..and is barely anything,....and it might be pulling air from that,...another thing that i tryed we once again did it but this time when we held our hand over the throttle body hole (hopeing that it would die out), it didn't die out. theirfor its getting air in the intake enough for it to run,...so we are gonna put some RTV ghasket sealer on it and wait for it to dry,..crank it up,..and repeat the process,...if that method doesn't change anything we will try the starter thing,..i was thinkin the starter thing but doesn't sound like its comin from the starter,...motor also surges up and down....if it isn't one thing its another,...well thank you everyone for your help and ill be back with results tomorrow!!! lol,...