Don't let age or anything like that be a factor, afterall how do you think us old guys feel around you young whipper snappers ?
Answer:
Real old but we come out and have fun anyway.
It sounds like meeting for a hour or so at a outside location (park, parking lot, etc.) then riding out to a restaurant is the way to go to cut down on any confusion or having to look for random unknown people.
Do this sound about right ?