haha i found what was wrong with it. i walk into service bay..hmm this wire loom looks weird. well nissan runs their main harness past the injectors around the front of the motor...and part of it rubbed on a piece of the head...a sharp 90 degree angle piece...so it had rubbed into the loom and wires causing the short.

my car runs now and hopefully it wont die on me anymore for a long time (or at least not related to this stuff) they didnt charge me for the second tow nor the fuse.

btw the 30A fuse that i can buy at discount for $1.99 they charge me 8.99 that my friends is bullshit!!! oh well i commend them on their speedy tow service and being really nice to me...way better than toyota dealerships ever were.