wouldn't it be easier to trade someone the whole damn car??? and how much of the work is your girl going to be doing on this conversion??? since it sounds like you have no prob with a stick then she ought to be doing a whole hell of alot otherwise stick her behind the wheel and lock her in the car till she gets it right,,,, I mean it's not rocket surgery...
Don't get me wrong I'm not knockin you girl I have a ball and chain as well but it would be easier to put a nsx engine in the damn thing