Whatever you do, don't put euro lights on it! There are a few truck/suv shops in the bay area - I know there's a jeep shop in clearwater called jeff's jeeps. I'd contact him/them and see where they can point you too. There's also S&M Truck World (I think that's the name of it). They're in St. Pete and have a ton of suv stuff and tons of catalogs too!
P.S. What color is your jeep? I have an 01 Grand Cherokee Laredo and it's silver.