4.10s with a 3800 stall is pretty aggressive for a daily driver. I'd probably leave the 3.23s in and just go with the 3800 stall and see how it runs. I know taws6's car has 3.73s with a 3600 stall and it is a bit overboard for a daily driver.
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kind of funny how all the gear ratios lined up on the left side.