Issues w/Ebay seller

**Alan** · 01-10-2008, 11:22 PM

I'm having my first experience with a questionable Ebayer and I need some opinions on what to do and how to approach the issue...

My frist clue as was the payment method. He only took USPS money orders and they must be received by him no later than 5-days after the end of auction. He didn't take Paypal. I researched his history and he came up very clean. No negative rep. All positive comments. Everything seemed okay.

So I end up winning the item. Bidding ended on Christmas Day. I shoot him a message adivsing I would get the money order and mail it out the following day. I send the money order out USPS Priority Mail. Tracking number verified it was delivered to his home the following Saturday (5-days after the end of the auction).

Fast forward to the following Saturday (7-days later). No package. THe guy lives in Virginia so I should have had it by now. No messages/email from the seller. You'd think I'd at least get some sort of update. I'm a bit pissed. So I send him a message asking for status. He gets back to me in about an hour stating he would send it out Monday and he would send me a tracking number. No biggie.

Monday passes. No message or email. Figure I'll give him a few days to see if I get a message or get a package on my door. Well today is Thursday and no package. No email. No message. Nothing.

I send him another message asking for the tracking number. He gets back to me now stating it will be sent out FRIDAY!!!

Am I jumping the gun here on being pissed off? This guy has been sitting on my money for almost two weeks now and hasn't bothered to ship it out. Should I sit it out another week? Should I contact Ebay to get things in motion?

I've never had an issue on Ebay so I'm at a bit of a loss on how to approach this without screwing myself of my money and/or the item.

bigjim2.5 · 01-10-2008, 11:27 PM

since you mailed a money order it takes longerfor thinkgs to arive in the mail especially this time of year.. if he has all positive and no negatives give him some slack as holidays slowed us all down

MiDiablo · 01-10-2008, 11:41 PM

Fugg it, BAN HIM!

No, seriously though - I'd just email him, and calmly state my concern(s), and let him know that if he cannot provide you the service he originally advertised/promised - then you will begin to take the necessary steps to resolve it through eBay directly.

Then, regardless of when/if you get the stuff - make sure you leave him feedback ACCORDINGLY - not just based on your first reaction. I've received negative feedback from someone, when in actuality I should not have (they received the items late, as it was stuck in customs)...

**Alan** · 01-11-2008, 12:26 AM

10-4

What really got me was this part in his item description... "Payment must be received no later than 5-days after close of auction. Deadbeat buyers will be dealt with accordingly."

Pisses me off that I have to pay him ASAP "or else"...but he can sit on his ass and ship this thing out whenever he feels like it. I'd understand if this were delayed by UPS/FedEx/USPS. But this is purely this seller not packing up the item and getting it out in the mail. Holidays or not, it shouldn't take someone 13-days after reciept of payment to get the shipment out.

Guess I am just frustrated because this isn't how I operate. If someone gives me money for an item I ship that damn thing out within 24-hours. It doesn't matter if it is Christmas, Flag Day, Black History Month, etc....I'm getting it taken care of.

**topher469** · 01-11-2008, 12:26 AM

you can always start a dispute, all that will do is Ebay will contact him asking for tracking numbers. If he don't respond then Ebay will take further action. USPS Money orders make it a federal offence (mail fraud)if he don't send the item.

Joker Instituted · 01-11-2008, 12:27 AM

this is why i only go threw paypal.

riverviewnative · 01-11-2008, 12:34 AM

Ebay won't so shit. I got fucked for $425 on a t5 from an asshole that only took money orders. He scammed me and others for over 2k and Ebay did nothing. Paypal from now on. Ebay does not give a shit about anything but them selves. And just a head up they also own paypal. As far as the federal offence for it being postal money order. i did the same thing and if you think the federal government cares about that you are in fantasy world.

**topher469** · 01-11-2008, 12:39 AM

Did you use a USPS money order?

I know I did for a $680 auction and was scammed. Ebay sent me the papers and I filed with the Post office, next thing I know US marshalls are stopping by and taking all the info. Three weeks later I had a $680 USPS money order in my hand and I had to send back a written statement for the prosicution.

PS

PayPal is owned by EBAY

ShakinIt · 01-11-2008, 12:58 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MiDiablo

Fugg it, BAN HIM!

No, seriously though - I'd just email him, and calmly state my concern(s), and let him know that if he cannot provide you the service he originally advertised/promised - then you will begin to take the necessary steps to resolve it through eBay directly.

Then, regardless of when/if you get the stuff - make sure you leave him feedback ACCORDINGLY - not just based on your first reaction. I've received negative feedback from someone, when in actuality I should not have (they received the items late, as it was stuck in customs)...

DON'T leave negative feedback...becuse then he will leave YOU negative feedback and as the seller, he always gets the last word.....and he doesn't have to leave feedback till he feels like it...

This is a big issue I have with ebay...I got screwed over by it.....I feel that, as a buyer, once you have submitted your payment and it clears, the seller should have to leave your feedback because you are basically done with your responsibilities......but this is not the case......the seller doesn't have to leave till they feel like it and they typically don't till the buyer does.....and if there is a dispute through the feedback, they always get the last word...only way to fix it is to mutually withdraw, if they agree..

I got screwed over by some asshole seller this way....so don't do it if you care about your rating

riverviewnative · 01-11-2008, 01:08 AM

Ebay changed the rules on 7 07 and now the won' t do shit.

Quote:

Originally Posted by topher469

Did you use a USPS money order?

I know I did for a $680 auction and was scammed. Ebay sent me the papers and I filed with the Post office, next thing I know US marshalls are stopping by and taking all the info. Three weeks later I had a $680 USPS money order in my hand and I had to send back a written statement for the prosicution.

PS

PayPal is owned by EBAY

riverviewnative · 01-11-2008, 01:10 AM

Leave that cock sucker a negative. We have over 5500 positive feedback and if you get screwed then you need to let every one else know that his a scammer.

Quote:

Originally Posted by ShakinIt

DON'T leave negative feedback...becuse then he will leave YOU negative feedback and as the seller, he always gets the last word.....and he doesn't have to leave feedback till he feels like it...

This is a big issue I have with ebay...I got screwed over by it.....I feel that, as a buyer, once you have submitted your payment and it clears, the seller should have to leave your feedback because you are basically done with your responsibilities......but this is not the case......the seller doesn't have to leave till they feel like it and they typically don't till the buyer does.....and if there is a dispute through the feedback, they always get the last word...only way to fix it is to mutually withdraw, if they agree..

I got screwed over by some asshole seller this way....so don't do it if you care about your rating

GNs-r-slow · 01-11-2008, 02:18 AM

This is why I dont mess w/ E-bay!! I like to see what Im buying and get it when money is given. I dont see were saving a few dollars is worth risking the whole amount. Good luck on getting money or product

BigDawg · 01-11-2008, 03:43 AM

I say waiit out another week. But get his personal information, maybe a phone number, and call him. Only because if you leave him negative feedback it might sour him up more, and he might just say screw it, and not send the item.

**OldMan** · 01-11-2008, 07:43 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by GNs-r-slow

This is why I dont mess w/ E-bay!! I like to see what Im buying and get it when money is given. I dont see were saving a few dollars is worth risking the whole amount. Good luck on getting money or product

+10,000!!!!

I tried ebay like everyone else, but in 15 transactions, 10 were bad. I had two where the items weren't shipped for 2+ months after the seller had my money. I would keep getting bs about they shipped it, but the numbers were never right or would just say billing info received. However, the items were never entered into the system, so I know they were lying. I also had one guy that went back in and changed his description, after I tried to dispute the transaction of him not sending what his ad showed.
I never got anything but standard email replys from Ebay. Personally, I will just pay retail and know what I'm getting....

fakesnake · 01-11-2008, 07:44 AM

there are time limits on things you can do on ebay auctions...take some time and research the ebay rules...some rules are hard to find on the ebay site...start with buyers and sellers rules...you will be amazed at what you find...good luck...

01-10-2008, 11:22 PM	#1 (permalink)
Alan drives euro trash Car: 2004.5 Passat Oberwagon, 2007 Rabbit My TRGarage Brandon, FL : 79454120	Issues w/Ebay seller I'm having my first experience with a questionable Ebayer and I need some opinions on what to do and how to approach the issue... My frist clue as was the payment method. He only took USPS money orders and they must be received by him no later than 5-days after the end of auction. He didn't take Paypal. I researched his history and he came up very clean. No negative rep. All positive comments. Everything seemed okay. So I end up winning the item. Bidding ended on Christmas Day. I shoot him a message adivsing I would get the money order and mail it out the following day. I send the money order out USPS Priority Mail. Tracking number verified it was delivered to his home the following Saturday (5-days after the end of the auction). Fast forward to the following Saturday (7-days later). No package. THe guy lives in Virginia so I should have had it by now. No messages/email from the seller. You'd think I'd at least get some sort of update. I'm a bit pissed. So I send him a message asking for status. He gets back to me in about an hour stating he would send it out Monday and he would send me a tracking number. No biggie. Monday passes. No message or email. Figure I'll give him a few days to see if I get a message or get a package on my door. Well today is Thursday and no package. No email. No message. Nothing. I send him another message asking for the tracking number. He gets back to me now stating it will be sent out FRIDAY!!! Am I jumping the gun here on being pissed off? This guy has been sitting on my money for almost two weeks now and hasn't bothered to ship it out. Should I sit it out another week? Should I contact Ebay to get things in motion? I've never had an issue on Ebay so I'm at a bit of a loss on how to approach this without screwing myself of my money and/or the item.

01-11-2008, 12:34 AM	#7 (permalink)
riverviewnative Registered User Car: My TRGarage : 657266915	Ebay won't so shit. I got fucked for $425 on a t5 from an asshole that only took money orders. He scammed me and others for over 2k and Ebay did nothing. Paypal from now on. Ebay does not give a shit about anything but them selves. And just a head up they also own paypal. As far as the federal offence for it being postal money order. i did the same thing and if you think the federal government cares about that you are in fantasy world. Last edited by riverviewnative : 01-11-2008 at 12:39 AM.

01-10-2008, 11:27 PM	#2 (permalink)
bigjim2.5 Registered User Car: My TRGarage : 135881489	since you mailed a money order it takes longerfor thinkgs to arive in the mail especially this time of year.. if he has all positive and no negatives give him some slack as holidays slowed us all down

01-10-2008, 11:41 PM	#3 (permalink)
MiDiablo $ells Foreclo$ure$ Cheap! Car: 2006 Silverado; 1989 Mustang Coupe My TRGarage Brooksville, FL : 2147483647	Fugg it, BAN HIM! No, seriously though - I'd just email him, and calmly state my concern(s), and let him know that if he cannot provide you the service he originally advertised/promised - then you will begin to take the necessary steps to resolve it through eBay directly. Then, regardless of when/if you get the stuff - make sure you leave him feedback ACCORDINGLY - not just based on your first reaction. I've received negative feedback from someone, when in actuality I should not have (they received the items late, as it was stuck in customs)...

01-11-2008, 12:26 AM	#4 (permalink)
Alan drives euro trash Car: 2004.5 Passat Oberwagon, 2007 Rabbit My TRGarage Brandon, FL : 79454120	10-4 What really got me was this part in his item description... "Payment must be received no later than 5-days after close of auction. Deadbeat buyers will be dealt with accordingly." Pisses me off that I have to pay him ASAP "or else"...but he can sit on his ass and ship this thing out whenever he feels like it. I'd understand if this were delayed by UPS/FedEx/USPS. But this is purely this seller not packing up the item and getting it out in the mail. Holidays or not, it shouldn't take someone 13-days after reciept of payment to get the shipment out. Guess I am just frustrated because this isn't how I operate. If someone gives me money for an item I ship that damn thing out within 24-hours. It doesn't matter if it is Christmas, Flag Day, Black History Month, etc....I'm getting it taken care of.

01-11-2008, 12:26 AM	#5 (permalink)
topher469 BillionClub Member BISHES Car: 2001 SVT Lightning !! YEAH My TRGarage St. Petersburg : 2147483647	you can always start a dispute, all that will do is Ebay will contact him asking for tracking numbers. If he don't respond then Ebay will take further action. USPS Money orders make it a federal offence (mail fraud)if he don't send the item.

01-11-2008, 12:27 AM	#6 (permalink)
Joker Instituted needs a rich uncle Car: 86 coupe 5.0 My TRGarage apollo beach : 1043170342	this is why i only go threw paypal.

01-11-2008, 12:39 AM	#8 (permalink)
topher469 BillionClub Member BISHES Car: 2001 SVT Lightning !! YEAH My TRGarage St. Petersburg : 2147483647	Did you use a USPS money order? I know I did for a $680 auction and was scammed. Ebay sent me the papers and I filed with the Post office, next thing I know US marshalls are stopping by and taking all the info. Three weeks later I had a $680 USPS money order in my hand and I had to send back a written statement for the prosicution. PS PayPal is owned by EBAY

01-11-2008, 02:18 AM	#12 (permalink)
GNs-r-slow Registered User Car: 89 Lx coupe My TRGarage Brandon : 1013990876	This is why I dont mess w/ E-bay!! I like to see what Im buying and get it when money is given. I dont see were saving a few dollars is worth risking the whole amount. Good luck on getting money or product

01-11-2008, 03:43 AM	#13 (permalink)
BigDawg has his prioritys ef'd up Car: My TRGarage South Tampa : 2147483647	I say waiit out another week. But get his personal information, maybe a phone number, and call him. Only because if you leave him negative feedback it might sour him up more, and he might just say screw it, and not send the item.

01-11-2008, 07:44 AM	#15 (permalink)
fakesnake Registered User Car: 1982 MERCURY CAPRI My TRGarage HOLIDAY : 4319874	there are time limits on things you can do on ebay auctions...take some time and research the ebay rules...some rules are hard to find on the ebay site...start with buyers and sellers rules...you will be amazed at what you find...good luck...